Things I've Come To Accept As Reality Since I've Been Away or should I say the things that make you go AHH!

Boys will never be men no matter how old they are if the women around them continue to make excuses for their actions and reactions …

When will our people in Africa realize that the Roman Catholic religion that they've accepted as fact and their non-existent stand on safe sex (i.e. wearing condoms is a sin) are the main reasons AIDS is destroying this beautiful country and their people?

Did you know that not ONE member of the armed service serving in Iraq or Afghanistan or for that matter in the armed service today is directly related to any member of Congress? It's easier to send the ones that you don't know to hell than to send one of your own …

Daddy, Pops, Father, and Dad - One of the most underrated resources in this world!

Pray that you never have an outwardly successful boy, son, brother, father, grandfather or male friend. The trouble and drama that some women will bring to their world just because of who they are or what those same women THINK they will have one day would absolutely astound you …

For those of you that don't know… The only reason more troops are not screaming at the top of their lungs over Bush's arrogant egotistical war is because they risk going to jail, being demoted and or losing their benefits. EVERY Vet I've spoken to over the past two years have stated clearly that troop morale is horrible and the only reason they fight is because of their buddy in boots standing by their side. This you won't hear on Fox …

As soon as a man no longer wants a woman, EVERYTHING about him becomes an issue … and visa versa … I like the thought of just moving on and continuing on with ones life instead of trying to destroy the other … SIMPLE ENUF!

Five people (dead or alive) I'd love to have lunch with … My Grandfather and Grandmother (they count as one), President Bill Clinton, Denzel Washington, Arthur Ashe and Oprah …

No matter how many mistakes Bush and his cronies make, or the young lives that are destroyed thru their death on foreign lands or life changing injuries they receive from fighting for someone else's freedoms, white male America will always consider Bush a man's man …

Children are God's gift to those who deserve it and to the ones who have no idea how blessed they are…

Anita Baker's Fairy Tales is the most accurate song on relationships I've ever heard.

Any two fools can lie down and have a child but it takes a true man and woman to be a mother and father…

Would there be one whisper of defiance in regards to the right to have an abortion if MEN had to carry a child for nine months, have their body totally reshaped and in some instances destroyed, go thru 48 hours of labor, birth a child for a woman he has absolutely NO real feelings for, and not one red dime to help raise and support that kid?

REPUBLICAN sounds a lot like HYPROCRITE from my side of the aisle… Do I need to list the examples?

Is it possible to support our troops and despise our so called President without being labeled a traitor or even worse UNAMERICAN!?

Are men TODAY really NOT handling their business when it comes to their immediate family? Or are our black women giving themselves up to men that they KNOW have no intention of being that responsible and loving partner?

Who deserves the blame for decisions YOU make? You or that outside influence?

Is there a special place in Hell for the Religious Right?

I have nothing against my hard working Hispanic brothers, legal or illegal, but one has to wonder … If a crowd of 20 to 50 black men were standing around a major store (Home Depot, Lowes, etc) all day-every day, how long do you think it would be before half the police force in ANY given city would be there to put all of their asses in jail for loitering?

Wanna get ANY Bill passed in Congress … Just stick security and terrorist on the list of reasons for it and every white male in Congress will sign that particular piece of trash, their freedoms and their lives away!

Question of the week …. If you have a son and he tells you he had consensual sex with a young lady his age and she's pregnant now but he doesn't feel prepared or in love enough to raise a child with her and he asks her to have an abortion, would he be wrong? On the other hand, if your son wanted that same woman to have the child but she wanted to have an abortion would he be wrong to take her to court and make her have the baby?

For those who actually read this entire tirade, isn't it obvious that the war and the state of black America in regard to love and lust has truly pissed me off?